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What No One Tells You About Your Wedding Day

Erin Levers • Sep 12, 2017
Wedding Day

A typical wedding day is full of surprises. At Bella Sera, we've helped hundreds of couples make the journey into marriage, and we know what happens on the big day. If you're getting married soon, knowing these little details can help you prepare for the emotional adventure you're about to undergo.

It Won't All Go According to Plan

It doesn't matter how much you've prepped for the big day. A wedding is such a big production, with so many moving parts, that It's very rare for the entire event to go exactly as planned from start to finish. The best way to avoid problems is to vet all your vendors ahead of time. Read online reviews, check up on references and use tried and true businesses to keep your wedding going as planned.

You'll Need More Help Than You Expected

When problems occur on your wedding day, friends, family and capable professionals will be there by your side to keep things moving. Don't try to handle everything yourself; task things out to the nearest capable wedding venue professional or even a loved one. This can help you keep your wedding on track and the way the event was meant to be.

You Won't Get To Visit With Everyone

You're not a superhero. Unless your wedding is very intimate and small, it will probably be impossible to spend time talking to everybody who shows up at your wedding. You can forgive yourself for not having long conversations with every guest. Remember they've come because they love you and they understand that you're busy.

You Might Not Get to Eat Anything

Lots of couples get too nervous on their wedding day to eat much or eat anything at all. This can leave you feeling a little queasy. To keep your stomach from rumbling, have a small snack on hand in the dressing room. Don't forget to have lunch delivered, and if necessary, take some quiet time during the reception to eat a small plate of food. You'll be glad you did.

Drinking Might Also Be Out Of the Question

You'll be exhausted by the time the reception begins, so drinking any more than a glass of champagne may just sound like too much. Keep a water bottle on hand to stay hydrated, or you could start to feel sick by the end of the day.

...And Parts of It Will Still Be A Blur

Your wedding day will be so busy and will go by so quickly that you'll have a hard time remembering the small details when it's over. That's why it's so important to have a good photographer and videographer at the event!

You'll Be Amazed By the Warm Happiness You Feel

Right up until the day that your wedding happens, you'll feel a range of emotions. Pleasure, excitement, nervousness, anticipation and even a little dread. What you may not realize is that all that hard work and emotional output is leading up to a great feeling of warmth, happiness, and love. On the day that you're surrounded by your friends and family, you'll be amazed at the happiness you feel inside.

Contact Bella Sera

At Bella Sera, we know how it feels on your wedding day, we know what goes into the planning for a wedding, and we want you to have the best! To get started with a wedding vendor that really understands, call us today (724) 745-5575.

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